February 24, 2013

Qs but not As

What do you do when you realize some things...about yourself, about other people, about your reactions to things, about certain triggers? Like you know that something's going to happen and you know how you're going to react to it even before the event has fully played out. You know it...yet you can't stop it....or you can't change the way you react. Why is that? Why is it so hard to just let some things just be? Why is it so hard to give up that feeling of being in control? Why is it that we end up having expectations of people as we get to know them better? Why is it that they don't react in the way that we want them to? Why does it feel like justification and validity to statements are directly related?

Why aren't there clear answers to so many things? 

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